After several years and various product missteps, Mistress Pixie and I have finally fallen in love with a chastity device. Our journey has been up and down with smiles and heartaches.
Our journey began several years ago when we began to seriously date. Mistress was coming into her dominance and I was learning to kneel. During this time we were new and hungry for BDSM. Mistress wanted to own and I was eager to be owned. We both knew of male chastity devices and researched their benefits. Controlled orgasms, check. Controlled erections, check. Denial, check. Total power to the keyholder, yes, please. Excitedly, we dove in head first (pun intended)
The CB-6000 was the first serious dive. Great reviews, happy Mistresses, and frustrated subs. This is exactly what we were looking for. Order placed and order received. We jumped right in. All started off well for our first serious attempt at male chastity. Then, one terrible day, I was wearing the device and I experienced the slip. For those that do not know what the slip is, it is when the male sub’s balls slip between the tube and the ball trap ring. It hurt and not the good kind of hurt. Mistress and I chatted and thought maybe I used too much lube that day so we tried it again. Bam, slipped again. We tried several fixes without doing much research. We changed ring sizes, increased and decreased spacers, less lube, and even chalked it up to cold winter days. Still, I kept slipping. One day I slipped was stuck mid-slip. My world was going dark as I felt I was going to pass out right then and there. This happened to the point where I couldn’t take the slipping anymore.
After almost a year after the slippage stoppage of male chastity, we decided to try again. We did more research and ended up trying a silicone product that wasn’t nearly as expensive. No success. We tried an enclosed device. Fun, but no success. We even bought this belt-style system that is cool and has its purpose; however, 24/7 male chastity is not the purpose of this belt. More research led us to the people over at Mature Metal.
I absolutely love the Mature Metal chastity devices. The folks over there are helpful and open about their products and what they offer. I ordered sizing rings from Mature Metal per their recommendation. At this point in time, it’s been a few years and Mistress and I are now married. We continue to drive our 24/7 TPE lifestyle without chastity. I am extremely gun shy on chastity as my anxiety was immediately peaking at the thought of the slip. But after some time, I measured and sent those into Mature Metal. After about two months, my Jailbird showed up and Mistress and I dove right in again. Everything started out well and then… you guess it, the slip. I quit. Mistress supported my decision and I walked away from all chastity devices. To be clear, this isn’t the fault of Mature Metal. This all resides on yours truly. I was still learning the measuring and wearing process. I could have asked them to resize but I just gave up instead.
Fast forward a year later in the middle of the pandemic. Mistress and I get on the topic of chastity after listening to a podcast where another female dominant mentions the holy trainer device. We discussed at length as I had given up trying to wear chastity. We decided that now was a good time to try again. Mistress and I had a baby boy a few months prior and she said, “I have no use for my cock anymore. Might as well lock it up”. We did a better job researching this time around. Research plus experience led us to our purchase. We bought the V4 holy trainer device and anxiously awaited its delivery. Once arrived we didn’t dive in. We dabbled. My anxiety about the slip made me hesitant and Mistress was supportive of my hesitation.
We started slow. A few hours at a time. I had some soreness of course as we went along and we only locked at home. My anxiety skyrocketed everything Mistress locked the device. But, we started slowly with a few hours here and there. After doing that for a few weeks, those several hours extended into several more hours. Before we knew it, I was putting the device on in the morning before work and taking it off either at bedtime or instructed by Mistress Pixie.
Now, I am on my 5th consecutive day of 24/7 chastity. The middle of the night can be a bit rough from what I have read and I concur. My body naturally wants to naturally erect, especially since Mistress Pixie has denied orgasm release for the past two weeks while completing her punishments and sessions. With last night being the fifth night, they are getting easier and easier to sleep through.
I feel great. I feel owned. I feel dominated, I feel like a male sub should feel.
This post is no way affiliated with any official companies or products. This all stems from my personal discovery and use. Please use the links below if you are interested in researching chastity devices.
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php
https://www.holytrainer.com/male-chastity-device/male-chastity-device.asp
Kneeling Kitty 
I’m glad you found a solution. I have been in a Jailbird from Mature Metal for the past 6-7 years. I have tried other cages on that time, but always quickly go back to my Jailbird. It seems I am seldom out of it these days. lol
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That’s crazy. I started with a jailbird and we loved it. But after about a month, I started slipping out of it. I think I measured incorrectly. That slipping raised my anxiety about caging until a got brave enough to try the holy trainer. I still want to work with mature metal, just haven’t built the courage to give it another go.
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I have never slipped out of mine. I think I would have pain trying to get out! lol
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