About Us

Mind Open Mouth Gagged

24/7 D/s Relationship

Hello Kinksters and the curious! Welcome to My kitty’s blog page managed by Me, Mistress Nova.

I identify as a Sadistic Mistress. I did not start out this way, I like to say that my role in this dynamic has evolved tremendously and rather quickly. When My submissive introduced me to BDSM I entered as a submissive and he was a Dom. This may come as a shock for those who know me on a personal level. I am a little bit bossy, demanding, and blunt. I like things a certain way and will demand that things are done my way. I am a take charge type of person and have a hard time letting go of control. Let’s just say after one play session, I knew that submission was not my role in life. It was not hard to convince My submissive, A.K.A kitty, to switch roles and make it a permanent change.

So, here we are! We live a 24/7 Mistress/submissive relationship with my toes dibbing into Mistress/slave. I am head of household. The decisions are mine to make. kitty cannot pee, eat, dress, think, or drink without my consent. I run a tight ship and expect complete obedience most of the time because I do love it when he fails! That is when my sadistic nature gets to play. Until he messes up, I am fair and consistent until I am not. Again, I share that I am a Sadistic Mistress.

I absolutely love public humiliation, degradation, boot worship, bondage, anal play, sissy boy, sub-servitude, Female Lead Relationships (FLR), sensory deprivation, male chastity, subjugation, impact play, discipline, punishments, objectification, and pet play. Which means kitty loves these things too.

I would love to learn more about fire play, rope, suspension, feet worship, mind-fuckery, and the sub-human slave dynamic.

A few known fetish of mine: women’s clothing & boots, voyeurism, sadism, pegging, tease/denial, gags, hoods, butt plugs, whips, paddles, and everything listed above.

kitty is my husband and we have been active for over 7 years. We have been very private over those years but now seeking a community to learn and grow with. I am here to share my story, seek mentorship, friendship, and help others on their journey.

Other than that I and kitty would love to chat with like minded individuals and look forward to creating a community with you!