A bit of a sensitive area for men, I would say. Not just physically, either. The male testicle highlights many male conversations either through series talks or the bunt of a joke. We protect our balls more than we may protect our property at times. Men go through great lengths to ensure that nothing detrimental happens to their “man parts”. Yet, here I am, getting ready to open the mic for cock and ball torture.
I am not exactly versed in CBT play, to be honest. Actually, Mistress and I just spoke about my lack of research and readings around our lifestyle and how that has set us on a course where she is learning all kinds of new tricks, and I am far behind her. I need to fix that and find ways to be more engaged in the BDSM lifestyle outside of our little bubble. But that doesn’t mean I don’t have ideas and don’t think some things up.
One thing I do know about it is the humbler. Mistress and I have seen it when shopping for naughty items online and have spoken about getting it. We have yet to pull the trigger. Not so much as a deep thought but just a thing that would aid in Mistress’s sadistic personality. The humbler is an item that is typically made of wood and is carved in a wavy way that fits behind your legs. The male’s balls are attached in the middle of the item, and the grooves are designed to rest on the back of the legs, forcing the balls to stretch behind the legs and forcing the male to stay in that position. This would be perfect for predicament bondage or just control. Mistress can strap on the humbler and then fuck herself right out of my rich knowing that it drives me crazy, and I will go through pain to reach her.
But we don’t have a humbler and may not get one for a while, so I began to think of other ways Mistress can perform her sadistic ways while torturing my balls. While forcibly sitting in a chair, I started to think of how Mistress could introduce a bit of CBT right there. My ankles were tied together at that time, and my hands were attached the chair, immobile and away from use. Mistress could then tie my balls to my ankles. The shorter the length between balls and ankle, the more uncomfortable the position is. I wouldn’t adjust because of my bound hands, thus increasing the awkward situation and feeling. Throw in a hood, gag, and blindfold, and we have ourselves a party.
Mistress does have a few items in her arsenal that are designed to make me squirm and strain. She quickly has 100’s of clothespins that can be attached to the soft skin of my penis and testicles. We also have this neat little device called a torture condom. This item is made of tiny metal ringlets that are connected to make a “condom.” You put it over the penis and then do whatever you see fit. One disclaimer, it is not an actual condom, and I don’t recommend it going inside the Vagina. It is a painful experience.
We also have a cock collar with spikes for Mistress to tighten that dig into the penis shaft. It starts off in a teasing way and feels pretty good until Mistress goes total sadist and really tightens the screws. Mistress also has a ball-crushing device that we have not thoroughly put to the test. You place the penis and balls through this whole on a rectangle and then place this cover over it that has an additional hole for the penis. You line up the screws and begin to tighten them to desired crushing intensity.
Mistress used to be highly into sounds and “penetrating” my penis using metal sounds and penis plugs. We haven’t had a sound play session in quite some time, and I miss the feeling of being in awkward positions with things being rammed down my shaft. I wouldn’t mind some electro play with that as well.
The hardest part of CBT came a few months back, and I know Mistress will return to it with a different approach. A few months ago, Mistress spread IcyHot all over my balls, and at first, it was okay. But after a few minutes, PHEW! My balls were on fire. I was a “free-range” sub that night and wasn’t restrained or anything. I ended up in the shower after a few minutes to try and wash it away. It only lessened the sting a bit. I know Mistress wants to do more of that, and I prepared for her to fully restrain me before she does it.
The only thing with CBT that isn’t for me is being kicked in the balls. I mean, maybe it takes me back to my sports days when that happened from time to time, and I associate sports and ball kicking together. I am all for Mistress whipping, spanking, slapping, flicking, and biting my cock and balls. Hell, she has even used her heel on her boots to gain some control. But full-on kicking!? Nope, the hard limit is set right there.
Enough rambling for a Tuesday. Enjoy some tacos, readers.
Until next time