I have titled this series “deep thoughts” for a personal reason. Mistress and I have been active in the BDSM lifestyle for over six years now. We started off very innocently and have grown into our current state. But, it wasn’t always like this for us. We were both in prior relationships where we were labeled differently, forcing us to kink shame ourselves and hide our actual needs. Mistress has done a much better job at being herself, being open to herself and her role in our life. I have not and continue to kink shame myself at points throughout our days. I have gotten better by being more open with my communication. So when I talk about some of these things, they may not be profound to others but are deep for me. If my thoughts are an onion, if I can peel back this layer, then the exposed layer is my new comfort zone. So far, so good.
I talked with Mistress Piixie the other day about the term predicament bondage. I have to admit that I do not remember ever actually reading something specific about this type of bondage. We chatted back and forth and concluded that predicament bondage is a type of bondage restraint that forces the person to be restrained to make choices, none of which are ideal. With that, I start deep thinking how this could play into our lifestyle and have come up with some ideas.
Let’s recap the chat I had with Mistress first and foremost. I had shared a particular thought with Mistress about a predicament that would be interesting for her to play out. Please keep in mind that Mistress and I participate in safe play sessions at all times, and nowhere do we play in any unsafe manner without having a contingency plan. I was talking with Mistress about her punishment sessions and how much I wiggle around. During our chat, I briefly described a method that would require me to make one choice out of the possibilities of several uncomfortable decisions, all within one session. I further explained that if she tightly bound my hands behind my back, I wouldn’t be able to block the incoming smack of her impact tool. Duh, right. She already does that, so that wasn’t an eye-opening experience for her. But, I further explained that if she also strung the rope through our ceiling hook, looped it through my collar, and then forced me up on my tippy toes, then I would be looking at a couple of different choices. I would end up forced to stand there to take the beating while my legs and ass began to ache from being on my tippy toes. The movement would be minimal as I am tied. However, when the muscles begin to fatigue due to the uncomfortable position of tippy toes, I would be forced to either give in to the fatigue and lower down to the balls of my feet thus tightening the pressure on my collar or deal with the muscle fatigue. All of this while receiving impact after impact.
After our chat, I continued to think more about predicament bondage. I started to think about a session we had a few months back where she had restrained me just enough to where she was out of my reach and then edged me over and over again for hours. By the end of the session, I was ready as she undressed just out of my reach and fucked herself, watching me fight my way to her. Not too much of a predicament as the decision to fight against the bounds didn’t do anything in particular other than keep me from reaching her. But, what if she had tied a noose around my balls and then laid out of reach to fuck herself after hours of edging her ever so needy submissive? That is what I started to think about and would have to decide at the moment. Do I struggle to get to my Mistress and feel the pain in my balls or sit back and needlingly watch as she climaxes several times over the allotted time?
Now, let’s begin to look at Mistress’s arsenal of tools that she can use to increase the complexity. Mistress has a large metal anal hook hanging in our closet. I began to think about the level of discomfort that a large metal hook is. With me laying flat on my stomach with the anal hook in place, Mistress could secure my hands in an uncomfortable position over my head so as my hands begin to get tired and rest, the tension will increase on the anal hook. Again, Mistress can increase the complexity by adding impact play or tickling to the session to create forced decision-making.
Then, I really started getting creative. Mistress would take the rope and thread through our ceiling attachment point, tie one end of the rope to one of her pegging dildos and the other to a bucket. Of course, I am also bound through this whole process. She would need to add some sort of uncomfortable reaction to this, so clips on my nipples or scrotum attached to the bucket. As she fills the bucket, I would need to keep the bucket from falling by holding on to the dildo in my mouth. If the bucket were to fall either by me not sucking the dildo correctly or by sheer weight, the clothespins would rip off, causing extreme discomfort.
Goodness, I think I can go for hours. I guess I’ll wrap it up here.
Kneeling Kitty 