The big Valentine’s day. Another Hallmark holiday comes and goes with open wallets and broken hearts. Mistress and I see V day as the chance to buy each other something naughty to add to our collection of gear stashed on the back wall of our closet. This year, Mistress purchased three small items to add to her arsenal. She bought a pair of magnetic balls that pinch the skin lodged into between them. I will let your mind wander where those are useful. She also purchased a new blackout blindfold that accompanies our current leather kitty mask that she uses quite often. I don’t know the official title of the last purchase she made, but it is a CBT toy that acts as a cock and ball ring but can be tightened and loosened. It reminds me of a noose.
As for me, Mistress instructed me that she wanted some new reading material. She had already pre-selected some book titles and saved them in our Amazon cart for me to purchase. Easy Peasey! I went to the Amazon Cart and pulled up the titles to investigate buying options. While browsing her selection, I stumbled across a book series written by a real-life Mistress and her life dominating her male submissive. I was intrigued. Nonfiction books on real female domination are hard to find, at least in my opinion. I opened the link to the book and found out there are 17 of them! My jaw hit the floor.
Backing up, Mistress and I have kept our lifestyle extremely private, for the most part. We are not part of a local community and do not play with others. It is just Mistress and me on this journey, and that is the way we like it. I am not saying that we will not get into a community someday. I am saying that we will never have additional play partners. Neither of us shares well, and we know that about each other. Anyways, my jaw hit the floor because Mistress was just saying how it would be nice to share her experiences with someone else. Now, buying some journals does not create conversation. Still, it does validate some of Mistress’s thoughts and feelings while juicing up her creativity. So, I bought her the first four books in the series for her to browse at her leisure. She typically shares some events that transpire in the journal entries to gauge my level of interest and chat about the possibilities of integrating into our life. She recently finished the first book and jumped right into the second book. A good purchase indeed.
COVID has put a damper on our V day plans as it probably has for others, but we were able to bring Grandma over to watch the kids while we snuck away for a few hours. We did one of those drink and paint with an instructor event and painted a couple on a cloudy day kissing behind an umbrella. We are both creative people, and we had to come together to craft one piece using two painting canvases. Of course, we added our own take to the scene by replacing the woman’s heels with a pair of black buckled boots. It was a good night for us. The best part, no fancy dinner. We hit the drive-thru for a quick bite on our way home. That is it. V day is not extravagant for us as a couple, and we like it that way. We reserve these “big” events for times that matter to both of us instead of one of us. Our next “big” event is our anniversary in May.
Anyways, I hope your V day is pleasurable for you and yours.
Until next time.
Kneeling Kitty 